Can’t blame me if I choose to be insecure and doubt him when he constantly talks with different exs
Like yooo
First I was cool with the pat woman I mean she’s married with kids he doesn’t have a child with her they just relate .
I remember him been mad when I told him not to buy a T-shirt from a girl in Lagos us it was too expensive her name was Jane nd I wondered why he would attack me like saying “I have male friends but I have issues with him buying things from his female friends nd stuffs” first of all I asked him if they ever dated he said yes okay how do you call ur ex your friend? Someone you had sexual relationships with is not considered your friend but your ex right I want to stop asking questions cus he is just going to keep it a secret if I keep asking questions
I had no issues with him liking pictures of his ex. Name Ruth I think someone on his contact uploaded her picture on her birthday and he liked the pictures this was November few weeks to our wedding date I saw it and ignored. ..
Now Andrea another person he had some Kind of entanglement with reached out to him and asked about wedding contacts and he engages in a chat with her about Mc nd dj contact he didn’t remember he was married and needed to stay away from any sort of communication that will paint the wrong picture of him and they spoke on phone about what I don’t know was I there no he came home and never mentioned that she reached out I didn’t say shit
Okay I see girls items sometimes under the car seat and I ask how people misplace their item in his car well they are careless hence he works with his car
I overlooked him driving and making a video of himself and two girls at the back hyping them I mean that’s fine you should be open to communicate with your clients sometimes it lifts their spirit
And I saw videos of another female in his car while he drove she used his Snapchat to make videos of herself singing to the song and touching her breast repeatedly
I was furious cus he was right ther while she was doing it he would make it seem like he turned his eyes away why didn’t he immediately insist he doesn’t want her to do that with his phone she would have apologized and given him back his phone you sat there and deleted the files like that is a perfect solution I asked him why he will allow such he said she begged him to use her phone and he had deleted the videos from his Snapchat but didn’t know she exported them to his gallery and said I know he won’t cheat on me or do anything with the opposite sex I never said anything about cheating I now wonder why that was his first defense
If I never saw that video would he ever have mentioned it absolutely not I don’t know if I am acting crazy but how many people out there will overlook this much? Cus with Al this I see why I just don’t know what I feel my dreams I can’t even talk about it last one I remember we were in a restaurant I was acting up cus he was more concerned about a girl there not been served food as he instructed and I asked why he didn’t care about me eating first he ignored me I got mad in d dream woke up didn’t see his calls I called him and we spoke I didn’t bring it up
I can’t say I want to begin speaking with my exes too i mean it should be a good pay back but I can’t I won’t bring down my standards no matter what stay away from your ex trust me until you make a mistake u will never learn to listen by then it will be too late
